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Is masc mean that the person can fix cars, build things, do yard work, likes sports, is hairy, etc? Because based on things like this I am very masc. Like I don’t know a guy out there that doesn’t have some femme to them, just like I don’t know any women out there that doesn’t have some masc to them. Like really observing people it becomes hard to say what is masc and what is femme with some things. But since coming out and taking what I observed from my time being “straight” I get really confused when someone says they are only into “masc” guys. So I grew up thinking I was a straight male that was messed up somehow. It took me many years to get to this point because only the binary genders and binary sexualities were talked about as the only options. I’m assigned male at birth non-binary and bi.
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Good news is I learned to own my butch look, and I always hold my date's hand in public whenever he needs reassured, making him realize that I'm not afraid to show him I care in public.
MASCULINE GAY MEN WITH TWINK MOVIE
While I consider myself more like a butch lesbian with the personality of a Hallmark movie bachelor, I appreciate men with evident signs of gayness. However, expecting a hyper-masculine gay man that will care about you, provide emotional support, love you with all your flaws and want to be seen with you is a figment of our imagination. I'm an introvert so the attention can be a bit much. Now before anyone gets pissed, I understand than some passive people like myself may not be comfortable with a femine guy who is very loud and intends on being the life of the party. I know everyone has their preferences, but have we considered that "straight acting" puts pressure on a group that has had to police their behavior all their lives? Yet we get frustrated when the hot masculine jock on Grindr turned out to be a Twink who retouched his pics and posed like an athlete in his photos? We create this strange pressure to "act" masculine just to be accepted. is this societal internalized homophobia at work? Unfortunately, it seems fem guys don't want another fem guy either. While I don't go chasing feminine guys, that would never make me not want to date someone. Even the masc for masc profiles deeply turn me off for some reason. However, I noticed that when guys said 'i love how masculine you are" I cringe. I sport a magnificent beard and I cherish my body hair. I love butch stuff but not because I was trying to masc my gayness, but because I genuinely love building and fixing stuff. While like many gay men I had my fem moments when I was a teenager, I grew up to look quite butch. Here is a list of other gay & related subreddits.Įver since I came out at 17 (17 years ago) I noticed that if a guy asks if you're masculine, if you're not, he is most likely to stop the conversation.
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If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.Īllies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.